when life gives you lemons......

buy some self help books! Read them and then actually remember what you read.....try to apply it to your life.........sadly while rereading one of my favorites this weekend I realized that I had scored a six out of six on the list of things to do that will make your partner essentially feel like crap and cause one to be alone on xmas and new years eve.  Bah humbug.  So, as an early holiday present to myself I ordered some other fun titles due to arrive by Wednesday.....He's Scared, She's Scared, highly recommended to me by a friend who has never opened his copy and also something else that seemed interesting called Make Up, not Break Up........seems like cheerful holiday reading to me!  I'll let y'all know if they help me out or not.